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See, thatโ€™s what the app is perfect for.

Sounds perfect Wahhhh, I donโ€™t wanna
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little self care things โ™ก

flowerais

open this if you don’t feel good today 💌


taste:

  • eat small fruit snacks
  • buy yourself a treat occasionally
  • make a cake in a mug
  • chew flavored sugar-free gum
  • put lemon in your water

hearing:

  • listen to your favorite music
  • or just wear earphones to block things out
  • listen to white noise/ambient sounds

smell:

  • put on some sweet-scented lotion
  • spray a bit of your favorite perfume
  • make your favorite coffee or tea

sight:

  • look in the mirror and tell yourself you look good today
  • clean the clutter in your room + throw things away
  • close all the unused tabs
  • clean the dishes + do your laundry
  • delete unused apps
  • make your bed
  • fold your clothes tidily
  • organize your books and papers
  • turn down the brightness of your phone/computer at night
  • smile and be more polite at strangers
  • open up the curtains, let the light in
  • go outside often

touch:

  • hug people you love
  • cuddle your pet
  • read while lying in your bed
  • hug a soft toy

appearance:

  • wash your face/use face wipes
  • dry shampoo if you’re too tired to shower
  • brush your teeth
  • exfoliate + moisturize your skin
  • change into clean clothes
  • brush your hair
  • put on some lip balm

body:

  • do your favorite exercises
  • take a nap
  • take deep breaths with your stomach
  • take a warm shower
  • stand up and stretch your legs
  • put on some music and go for a walk outside
  • get at least 7 hours of sleep
  • drink lots of water

hobbies:

  • always make some time to do what you love
  • create art, writing and music for yourself, not anyone else
  • don’t feel embarrassed about your hobbies
  • be patient with yourself, progress takes time! don’t give up
  • hobby ideas: cooking, reading, drawing, painting, a sport, a new language, learn a musical instrument, collect things, photography, join a class or a club

mind:

  • put yourself first
  • spend less time around people who make you feel bad
  • write your thoughts in a journal
  • stand up for yourself
  • stop judging people
  • don’t dwell in the past
  • concentrate on what’s happening now
  • don’t try for people who don’t care
  • stop caring about what’s not important
  • be a friend to yourself, rather than a bully
  • learn to love your body
  • see the bigger picture
  • change self-destructive habits
  • appreciate the good
  • let things go
  • ask for help

studying:

  • make lists
  • focus on priorities
  • stop putting everything off
  • turn off your phone if you need to
  • take breaks
  • do one thing at a time
  • believe in yourself!

other:

  • laugh a lot
  • get a plant and name it
  • buy flowers for yourself
  • be ok with being alone
  • go out with your friends
  • watch a movie

I hope you feel better soon. You deserve so much. Things will get better soon so keep going. ☁️ I love you

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rainwasheseverythingaway

The blue effect is also how Tide works, so if you can’t find the bluing products shown in the video, you can try using Tide. Regardless of what you use though it works because the blue helps color correct for yellowing that whites easily pick up. (Save Dawn for non clothes things though) (also if you have sensitive skin and use Tide, be sure to set for an extra rinse)

Vinegar is also really good for getting pet smells, including accidents, out.

Adding in a little borax powder to the drum is good for a detergent booster, especially if you have hard water issues.

weaselle

i learned so many things so quickly! and that, friends, is one of my very favorite feelings

hunter-rodrigez

tumblr’s aging user base yadi-yadi-ya…

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Domestic incompetence is going to kill men

kaiasky

ok but the sight of that giant lint block does not make me want to clean out lint more. imagine how good that shit would feel to touch omg

regexkind

You can just gather that shit. And then if you're only drying cottons or something you can take it camping and use it as firestarter

sufficientlylargen

Some other things a person might not know, especially if nobody ever taught them because their parents assumed that men don't need to do house maintenance:

  • Washing machines have filters to catch large debris; you should check these periodically and remove anything stuck in them. If you don't, it affects the machine's efficiency and eventually can lead to the filter getting clogged and flooding your laundry space.
  • Washing machines also need to be cleaned from time to time, generally by running them on hot with nothing in them except cleaning chemicals (you can buy washing machine cleaner, or google it for various diy solutions that probably involve vinegar or bleach). If you don't they'll start growing mold, and then all your stuff will come out of the wash smelling bad.
  • Dishwashers also generally have filters to catch large chunks of food and whatnot. Boy howdy can they smell bad if you don't ever check them.
  • There are dishwasher disinfectants as well, or you can do things with vinegar; either way, it'll prevent mold buildup and also hopefully rinse away buildup from soaps and whatnot.
  • If you have a reusable water bottle, wash it weekly. Otherwise you're probably drinking mold, the effects of which can be widely variable but almost always bad.
  • Vacuum cleaners often need their filters cleaned or replaced. If you vacuum a room and it smells worse than it did before, you probably need to change the filter or the vacuum bag.
scienceandstorytelling

To clarify, the reason you have to clean the lint out is 1) it makes your clothes not dry well and 2) it fucking CATCHES FIRE

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cock-holliday

Do not obey in advance, but do not obey at all! "until there are legally enacted rules..." EVEN THEN! Do you think when crossdressing laws were on the books everyone agreed to stop doing it until it was fought in court? when sodomy laws were on the books do you think everyone stopped having sex with their partners until it was fought in court? For everyone who lived in a state a mere 10 years ago who could not legally marry their partners, do you think they accepted that or married elsewhere, protested publicly, and held secret ceremonies anyway?

People love to invoke Stonewall for their #Resistance stance but do you realize that the laws were broken before the first brick/bottle/rock/shoe was even thrown? That cops raided bars because of how people dressed, who they were cozied up to, what they looked like. Our peers and elders have been brutalized by cops for wearing ties or heels and our peers and elders have been brutalized for where they piss.

Do not comply at all with unjust law! Never!

Do not relent to unjust laws! Do not simply resist when there is a loophole--fight like hell when the law is clear and precise and you know that the law is wrong.

Much of the worst atrocity committed in this country and by this country was "legal" -- that doesn't mean shit. Protect each other, run cover for each other, and do not yield to the law when the Law of the Land says your existence is illegal.

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kelsismedium

he would not say that.

bambibimbosparkles

I was there when he said it actually

kelsismedium

"oh yeah even if your opponent has an unexpected advantage that completely turns the tides of battle (you thought they were unarmed when they aren't) you shook totally just keep going with your current plan, otherwise you're a coward"

he would not say that.

bambibimbosparkles

you're just afraid of a big thick girlcock

gnilliam

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abalidoth

Whether Sun Tzu would be into girldick is completely orthogonal to whether he would give bullshit bravado advice that will get you killed. He's the "logistics win wars" guy.

His ladycock advice would be more like "The wise general chooses an adversary who uses familiar techniques."

fallenangelvictorious

there is a lot we will forgive for girlcock on this site but misconstruing Sun Tzu is NOT on that list

thisiswhymomworries
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xxspronkus420xx

I need this study

unrequirede

It looks like it's Anarchist Direct Actions: A Challenge for Law Enforcement. It was published in 2004

writefinch

It's worth pointing out that cops in the US adapted to these problems through using grand juries to cast wide nets and do punitive fishing expeditions in the wake of any serious suspected left-wing actions.

Here's how it works:

Someone starts a fire at an army draft office.

The cops look through their files for anyone who might be in the political orbit of someone who'd want to do that. People picked up at protests, for drug charges, vandalism, anyone who is already on their radar. They look into their known associates, anyone they live with, anyone they drink with.

Then they start subpoenaing these people for a grand jury summons. They give you immunity (but only for the matter of the grand jury!) so that you can't exercise the fifth amendment against self incrimination. If you say nothing, they can imprison you almost indefinitely for contempt of court. If they catch you in a lie, that's criminal perjury.

They'll ask you for information on everyone you know. Obviously they'll ask about their involvement in any crimes, but they're casting a wide net. Who knows who, where do they hang out, who talked to who about what and when. They'll ask you to spill interpersonal stuff, whether anyone is cheating on someone, whether people have substance abuse problems or embarrassing personal issues, if anyone is closeted, anything they consider dirt. Anyone you name is gonna get subpoenaed and they'll be asked for all this information on everyone they know, including you, and although you have immunity from your own testimony, you don't get immunity from each others.

Assuming you didn't personally do anything they can prosecute you for in the matter of the grand jury, they'll go after you based on what they know. The cops will arrest you on any little thing they have suspicion of, even if they know they can't prosecute you, just so that they can keep you in jail for a few days while you miss two shifts at work and your friends have to scramble to raise bail. They'll leak any embarrassing info that comes out, to your boss or your family or even the local press. Whatever they can do to make your life a little harder.

They will lean fucking hard on anyone who is involved in the scene but had second thoughts or felt like they were dragged into something they never wanted to do in the first place by their friends. The cops will say 'do you want to get your life ruined by people who did something stupid over something you barely even believe in' and sometimes that's a very compelling argument! If people have dependents or kids who they think won't be looked after if they go to prison, there's a lot of pressure to cooperate.

It's important to note two things:

1) Based on the ratio of actual prison sentences to maximum possible sentences for the charges, it's better for people not to cooperate with the jury both individually and as a group. People who talk still get sentenced, with the information they helped provide.

2) These aren't surgical strikes, they're an artillery barrage designed to destroy infrastructure and send people running for cover. Cops don't want you to have friends, they don't want you to hang out and have fun, they don't want you getting or providing food or shelter through anything you can't get fired from. They don't want committed direct-action people swimming freely through a sea of friendly people. They're not scared of the flower, they're scared of the soil that grows it.

noneedtofearorhope
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heraelis

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via NYPost: Immigration and Customs Enforcement is preparing to launch a โ€œbig fโ€“king operationโ€ across sanctuary cities โ€” including Chicago and New York โ€” immediately after President-elect Donald Trumpโ€™s inauguration, multiple sources told The Post.

Starting Jan. 21, multi-day โ€œground operationsโ€ will be launched across cities that have served as safe havens for migrants because the local authorities do not cooperate with the federal government when it comes to immigration issues, sources said.

catkllr-pussylvr

It’s past 1/21 at this point but the info is useful nonetheless

lilaccmilk
lilaccmilk

ok but think about….men who get carried away when they kiss you. their breathing gets heavier, grip gets harder, and suddenly they cannot let go of your lips.

Pulling you back into them if you even think about pulling away. Air? Who is she? They kiss you like you’re the last breath of air on earth, kissing you like they’ve been drowning forever, and you’re the first gasp of air breaking through their lungs—a desperate, consuming need.

Their hands roaming over your body, keeping you in place, keeping you agonizingly close. You know that it will bruise, but you don’t mind. How can you when they’re kissing you with such fervor? You try and make some distance, but all you get is a warning nip in your lower lip. But oh, when their hands reach your face, they hold you so tenderly, like you’re a dream they’re afraid to let slip away.

And when it gets too much—their teeth pulling your lips, chasing after you in a guttural groan, you try to pull away. To just breathe, even if it’s for a second. But as soon as you do that they dive back in, pulling you flush against them, almost whimpering, mindless babbles.

“no no, no. pretty you don’t get to do that, don’t go away. come back here. i’m so, so fucking lucky to have you. so sweet, you’re so sweet for me.”

And then they finally pull away, a saccharine string of saliva connecting your lips to theirs. It’s honestly filthy, but all you can think about is breathing, and you’re breathing them in, their scent clouding your senses. Their forehead resting against yours and then they smile. They smile as if they haven’t completely mushed your thoughts.

“I love you, pretty girl.”

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Narrow the gap between you and me
Our breath briefly touches, true
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